Daddy time

Since my time is limited with my son on the weekdays to a few hours between getting home and bedtime, I have tried to establish some Daddy time with him. Just the two of us. This not only gives Mom a much needed break, but allows us to build our own relationship between father and son. No mommies allowed (and he will tell her that!).

It has become such a common routine, that my son is disappointed when he doesn't get time with Daddy because the night got too busy. In those cases, we at least read a quick book together with a promise to spend more time the next night.

Though my days (and nights) can get quite busy at times, you can't forget to make time for your kids. You have to make the time!

Welcome to dad-eblog

Hi Skip,

Thanks for taking time to start a blog of your own on dad-eblog.com. Others are welcome and encouraged to do this as well.

As for your post, I completely agree - you really have to make the time. Sometimes I plan out my kid time for the week in the same way that I plan out my meetings, workouts, etc. (I need to do that more often actually, so thanks for the reminder!)

Btw, I found an interesting statistical article about the impact of dads just plain "being there" for our kids. It was a study done for daughters, but I think there's plenty of application for sons as well: http://www.divorcereform.org/mel/afatherprescence.html

A taste of your world

My two daughters are doing a sleep-over at a friends house, and my wife was out doing some shopping for a few hours, and so it was just me and my son this evening. I must say that one-on-one time like that is quite a bit different than when all three kids are there to keep each other occupied Eye-wink

It was non-stop daddy time for my son, and he was lovin every minute of it. So was I... well, in theory. I caught myself stopping by the laptop every now and then to check a few things online... and picked up the phone to plan a morning bike ride with a friend... and now that he's in the tub getting ready for bed, here I am stealing away to type out this post.

I won't use the word draining... oops, that just slipped right out there (and some day my kids will probably read this and I'll have some explaining to do Barf! ).

Let's just say that I admire your faithful efforts to spend time with your son on a daily basis!