Men, we have about one month to start planning a romantic experience for our wives.

Your mission, should you accept it, is to plan an event and gift(s) that will communicate to your wife that she's special and cherished by you. Yep, remember that part in your wedding vow long ago where you promised "to love and to cherish..."? It's time to step up to the plate and deliver.

Here are a few ideas to put on your planning checklist, and please leave a reply with any other ideas you have:

• Gift(s) - For Valentine's Day we'll need a gift that's romantic, meaningful, or intimate.

  Guys, steak knives are not allowed! But jewelry is good, and I've had great experiences with Blue Nile for earings and other jewelry. Lingerie is also a gift that's both romantic and intimate.

  Women want to feel beautiful, and men... well, this is one of those gifts that you benefit from as well . Frederick's has some great gifts to delight and excite, and here's a link to save $10 when you shop online - just don't let your wife catch you shopping!

  Chocolate is a good thing too, and don't you dare worry about the extra calories you'll be sending her way.
  

• Flowers - These are a MUST-have item, and it'll be even more special if you have them delivered. It won't cost an arm and a leg either with flower.com's $10-off promotion (coupon code "charming"), which will at least take care of the delivery.
  

• Dinner Reservations - Start thinking of a restaurant that she's mentioned in the last week or so, or one that is a favorite of her's. Make an Outlook appointment to remind you to call for reservations within the next few days. Ask for a window seat.

  Oh, and drop by early that day with a rose bud if you have time - they'll be happy to put it on the table for you, and your wife will really appreciate the extra effort.

  If you have kids, you'll need to line up a babysitter, and I'd pick up the phone today to reserve your sitter right away (if they're not already going out on a date).

  Having a hard time finding a sitter? A reputable sitter service like Sittercity.com can help find you a responsible sitter, but be sure to discuss it first with your wife to make sure she's comfortable with the idea.
  

• Card - As a guy, I've never really appreciated cards very much. You might be that way too, but DO NOT make the mistake of assuming your wife feels that way!

  Cards are a chance for you to put into words how you feel about your wife, and how much she means to you. Oh, and shop early since the best cards go fast.
  

Only you know the best way to touch your wife's heart, and I hope this post helps you start strategizing for this special occasion.

What have been some big hits for Valentine's Day in the past for your wife?